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    Wife and I... Team monger questions

    Hello fellow mongers. I'm happy I found this site. My wife and I are team mongers. Yes she probably enjoys the action more than me or sometimes she just likes to watch. My question is... Do you see many couples engaging with ticas? In our experience in other countries the women seem to feel more comfortable once they understand that my wife is ok with whatever I do alone or with her. And we are staying in copacabana hotel near the beach. Does anyone have any reviews on this hotel. Although we are going to relax we both like to party at night and we are concerned that we may look a little out of place being a couple in jaco. . Thank you in advance for any info.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nojokedeal View Post
    Hello fellow mongers. I'm happy I found this site. My wife and I are team mongers. Yes she probably enjoys the action more than me or sometimes she just likes to watch. My question is... Do you see many couples engaging with ticas? In our experience in other countries the women seem to feel more comfortable once they understand that my wife is ok with whatever I do alone or with her. And we are staying in copacabana hotel near the beach. Does anyone have any reviews on this hotel. Although we are going to relax we both like to party at night and we are concerned that we may look a little out of place being a couple in jaco. . Thank you in advance for any info.
    Copacabana was a good choice. Not sure when you're coming down -- it's slim pickings for everyone this time of year, but you can still find what you're looking for. Most Ticas are not REALLY bisexual, although many of them claim to be so. It's not a common thing here. Some girls put on a good show, and some do not. Many girls "talk the talk" but don't "walk the walk", if you know what I mean. Select carefully. It's probably best to let your wife conduct the Interview.

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    As for being a couple in Jaco, and a review of Copacabana...


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    Couple in Jaco...

    You certainly are not going to be "out of place" as a couple in Jaco. It's a busy little beach town, although not quite so busy during September and October. I was just in Jaco on Thursday, this week, around 1 p.m., and there were people out and about, but it was pretty quiet, overall. Jaco plays host to locals, Ticos visiting from San Josť, tourists, and expats... on a regular basis, year-round. Guys looking for girls, girls looking for girls, and couples looking for girls are not out of place in Jaco. However, as I stated in my previous post, don't expect any Chica professing to be bisexual to actually be bisexual. It's just not common in Costa Rica... although, yes, it does exist. The vast majority of the working girls are either straight or lesbian, and they'll put on the best show that they can muster until they can separate you from your money.

    As a couple looking for some "alternative lifestyle" action, you won't raise too many eyebrows in Jaco. They've all seen it... Many times.


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    Review of Copacabana...

    Probably the best option for an "alternative lifestyle" couple in Jaco. Copacabana is pretty much open to anything. It's certainly not the center of the action in Jaco, so -- especially at this time of year -- you will very likely have to venture out and scout a few venues to find someone to bring back to Copacabana. On the plus side, many of the girls are pretty desperate to make some cash at this time of year, so it's a buyer's market, for sure.

    I like Copacabana. It's not perfect, but the rooms have recently been renovated, it's very monger-friendly, and they put some effort into generating some activity at the hotel during the afternoon and evening.

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    Thx for the info. Since this is our first time being slow or busy in September is relative to us. She allows me to play alone.. But I'm hoping that copacabana has ladies on premises. Cocal casino maybe a Lil too much for her. Mostly we want the beach drinks and relax.

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    Based on one week stay here and my brief experience...I'm single brought a couple of girls over and had fun with some of my neighbors.

    Copacabana should work very well for you. Not an extravagant hotel but an interesting two pool and bar configuration, conducive to couples meeting. A healthy percentage at the pool will be nude or close to it. If you bring girls over just keep it low key I'd say but it's generally cool with most . High percentage of swingers and as you probably know or could guess, within that community, there is criticism and negativity like everywhere else...regarding prostitution...whether it's legal or not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by eatmochicken View Post
    High percentage of swingers and as you probably know or could guess, within that community, there is criticism and negativity like everywhere else...regarding prostitution...whether it's legal or not.
    This is for any mongers that might be reading this thread..

    Since Copacabana went full-on clothing-optional and renovated the rooms and the rest of the hotel, I have encountered this attitude myself -- but only on a couple of occasions. Mostly, folks who are into swinging, multiple partners, and nudity in public, are also usually pretty open-minded about prostitution. However, the "swinger scene" has found a little bit of a "base" at Copacabana. If you bring a hooker back to Copacabana, there is a slim -- SLIM -- chance that you might run into a jealous Gringa or someone who would love to preach to you about the evils and dangers of prostitution.

    Once again... I STRESS that most people are open-minded and are VERY, VERY cool with you bringing your chica or even multiple chicas into the hotel. In fact, many of those swingers will be dragging a hooker of their own back from the Cocal or some other venue later in the evening.

    However, if you are confronted, just do what I do.

    *** Please Note! I DO NOT actually believe most of what I tell these (very few) dickheads. I'm just throwing their pompous self-righteousness back in their faces. Here we go...


    1) You are doing NOTHING wrong! Someone doesn't like prostitution, and they want to preach to you about it? Tell them to Fuck Off! If they persist, or if they engage in this behavior in the presence of your girl(s), approach the management and tell them that you want it to STOP! Like... 10 Minutes Ago!

    2) Make all kinds of comments about how immoral Swinging is... "You don't understand the concept of loyalty", "Pervert", "Lack of self-control", etc. Of course, you don't really believe any of that, you're just throwing it back in their face.

    3) I'm a little fired-up about this because of one particular incident that happened to me about one or two months ago at Copacabana's restaurant: I had been with a hooker earlier in the day, but she had gone home. I was dining by myself, and the Gringa dining with her husband at the table next to me immediately started in on me about the evils of prostitution and didn't quit from the time that I sat down until the time that I left my table about one hour later. During the whole diatribe, all that I said was "Uh-Huh", "Yeah", and "OK". As I got up to walk away, I just looked at her and said, "Your Fucking opinions are Meaningless, and they always will be, you conceited, arrogant, better-than-thou, stuck-up fucking white-trash Gringa." As I walked away, her husband was saying something to me. I just said, "You expect me to respect your opinion? You're the one who Married the Stupid Bitch!"


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    Guys... there is intolerance of all kinds, everywhere. Just remember... If you encounter this kind of hate... this is OUR TURF! We've got 'em outnumbered, 100 to 1! Don't put up with it, and most importantly, DO NOT let it ruin your vacation or put you in a bad mood.


    Once again... I have found that the vast majority of people, from all different lifestyles, are very cool people. Don't let that very small percentage of jerks mess with you. But they ARE out there.

    And... PLEASE, GUYS... Don't BE that Jerk either. Most people are just trying to enjoy their time in Costa Rica.
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    o my...wow. lol. My wife would have screamed on that lady even more. as long as its not underage girls or anyone being forced...my wife would have pushed you aside and handle that lady for you...lol. we went to hedonism twice last year so we also understand the swinger seen. we mind our business...to each its own is our motto. I guess it sounds like copacabana was a good choice then for us. I just want the option of chatting it up with a tica my wishes and just walk back to room, all without leaving the hotel. I do plan on seeing cocal casino for the experience but i know my wife would not like it ....only because she does not look like a working girl and it usually throws some ticas off seeing me with her. we did not get the all inclusive because we want to get out and drink and eat around the town. Hopefully that will not be too expensive and we were hoping to see alot. thanks again for the info....the more info i get the better i will be prepared.

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    Yeah I agree Speedy. And I should say I loved staying at Copacana, would stay there again. I met new friends and got to play with ticas! And in the end got to combine that with a parTY with the attractive and cool couple next door. I should also say I saw no wives or girlfriends , arms akimbo, brows furrowed, staring us down (me and the girl who stayed with me most of my time there), nor was I directly confronted by anyone. We were obviously a hottie tica with a kind of wild older guy (me), and people being people...and many of the guests 30, 40, 50 somethings, well I suppose hearing one comment from a couple wasn't too bad. The first question in this thread was from a m/f couple of "team mongers " so my comments are only partially relevant I suppose in any regard. As always I try to be sensitive of the humans around me...but sometimes ya gotta say just fuck'em or tell em what's up... when they express disagreement with my behavior, never aggressive or hurtful, and usually legal ....as though it's about morals...that was kind of laughable i guess from a naked and drunk couple in the pool bahaha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nojokedeal View Post
    Thx for the info. Since this is our first time being slow or busy in September is relative to us. She allows me to play alone.. But I'm hoping that copacabana has ladies on premises. Cocal casino maybe a Lil too much for her. Mostly we want the beach drinks and relax.
    Well... That kind of depends on when, exactly, you're going to be in Costa Rica. In September and October, the odds are not good to see anywhere near the same number of girls that you would see in March. Cocal in October, on a Monday-Wednesday night, is rather tame. Copacabana does have some ladies that hang around, but at this time of year, there are not many people in town. If the girls know that only 5 or 6 of the rooms are sold, they are not likely to be around. My best advice is to be prepared to go scouting around town. Stop by Cocal for moment. Relatively speaking, it's usually the busiest place in town for working girls. If your wife gets a bad vibe, you can move on. This time of year is sort of a "Glass-Half-Full, Glass-Half-Empty" situation. You might show up at Copacabana and basically have the place to yourself. However, as you head into town and start visiting the venues where the working girls hang out, you'll realize that this time of year is definitely a "Buyer's Market." Business is BAD in September and October, for most of the working girls. Any reasonable offer will get their attention.

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    Quote Originally Posted by eatmochicken View Post
    Yeah I agree Speedy. And I should say I loved staying at Copacabana, would stay there again. I met new friends and got to play with ticas! And in the end got to combine that with a parTY with the attractive and cool couple next door. I should also say I saw no wives or girlfriends , arms akimbo, brows furrowed, staring us down (me and the girl who stayed with me most of my time there), nor was I directly confronted by anyone. We were obviously a hottie tica with a kind of wild older guy (me), and people being people...and many of the guests 30, 40, 50 somethings, well I suppose hearing one comment from a couple wasn't too bad. The first question in this thread was from a m/f couple of "team mongers " so my comments are only partially relevant I suppose in any regard. As always I try to be sensitive of the humans around me...but sometimes ya gotta say just fuck'em or tell em what's up... when they express disagreement with my behavior, never aggressive or hurtful, and usually legal ....as though it's about morals...that was kind of laughable i guess from a naked and drunk couple in the pool bahaha.

    I agree with all of that. I caution all mongers... Sometimes, we are our own worst enemies. I travel around Costa Rica quite a bit, and outside of the Gulch, Jaco, Tamarindo, and a few other minor locations, 50-year-old Gringos like me who are canoodling with 19-year-old chicas are given the "evil eye" everywhere that we go. The "Ugly Gringo" is not a pretty sight, even for other Gringos. However, when I see a Gringo who is just getting his party on, and the girls are having a good time, too, at a place like HDR, Cocal, or Copacabana... HOW in the WORLD could anyone Possibly have a problem with that?! Of all the places in Costa Rica, Copacabana is probably the Number One location for full-on sex-partying in a non-secluded location. I mean... Right in the middle of Jaco Beach, and now the entire resort is clothing-optional. If anyone says anything to anyone, I am like, "Give Me a Friggin' BREAK!! Are You Serious!?" Everyone has opinions, which are usually best when kept to oneself.

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